Modern Minister? Celebrant?

I like to describe myself as a Modern Minister or Celebrant.

modern |_mäd_rn|
adjective
of or relating to the present or recent times as opposed to the remote past : the pace of modern life | modern Chinese history.
• characterized by or using the most up-to-date techniques, ideas, or equipment : they do not have modern weapons.
• [ attrib. ] denoting the form of a language that is currently used, as opposed to any earlier form : modern German.
• [ attrib. ] denoting a current or recent style or trend in art, architecture, or other cultural activity marked by a significant departure from traditional styles and values : Matisse's contribution to modern art.

minister |_min_st_r|
noun
1 (also minister of religion) a member of the clergy, esp. in Protestant churches.
• (also minister general) the superior of some religious orders.
2 (in certain countries) a head of a government department : Britain's defense minister.
• a diplomatic agent, usually ranking below an ambassador, representing a state or sovereign in a foreign country.
3 archaic a person or thing used to achieve or convey something : the Angels are ministers of the Divine Will.

The ceremonies that I co-create with couples all reflect a modern understanding of the most widely recognized contemporary, rite of passage -- marriage. A modern marriage recognizes the inherent equality of both parties and is not limited to couples of different sexes. Of course, as we noted in an earlier post, same-sex unions are not new. See Same-Sex Unions in Premodern Europe by John Boswell, Vintage, 1995. There are also recorded instances of same-sex unions in premodern African and other indigenous nations.


celebrant |_sel_br_nt|
noun
1 a person who performs a rite, esp. a priest at the Eucharist.
2 a person who celebrates something.
ORIGIN mid 19th cent.: from French célébrant or Latin celebrant- ‘celebrating,’ from the verb celebrare (see celebrate ).

So, as you plan your same-sex marriage, please do not feel alone. Rest assured that there are modern ministers and Celebrants who understand that your marriage reflects the love, joy and commitment that is the foundation of all happy, fulfilling marriages. When you are looking for the ideal Celebrant/Modern Minister for your ceremony, notice whether s/he takes the time to get to know you and your desires. How does this person make you feel? Would you like to hear this person's voice, amplified? A wedding ceremony is a rare occassion in our lives. Your Celebrant should appreciate the importance of the ceremony and be your sincere, representative as you celebrate the love that has changed your life.

Certified and ordained Life-Cycle Celebrants have studied marriage throughout the ages and will cherish your love story and incorporate any and all rituals that reflect your joy in the present and your hopes for your future. No cookie-cutter ceremonies!